Everyone has problems in life. We shouldn't stress about ours so much because we're not the only ones at stake. But still, people are vulnerable to their thoughts, much more to their emotions and it affects their actions. Whether it's relationship problems, family problems, social problems, anyone can be affected by their own obstacles. We shouldn't let our ignorance get a hold of us either and push away others' present being because we may not have been in their place or just too worried about our own issues that it degrades everyone elses. Right now, I am, or better yet, my whole family is facing an issue that could just tear everyone apart. My grown cousin, or "grown," comes to me for advice when I can't do anything at all. It's coming to a point where I'm becoming involved when I really don't favor to. With school work, social life, and family issues, I'm becoming stressed out myself. But I shouldn't back out. I shouldn't let this tear me down.
My bestfriend/boyfriend tells me that I should be stronger than this, that I have other things that I have to understand before stressing out on situations, that I should never give up because it'll just create greater problems which i'd have to start over from. His words just calm me. I can't think of anyone else who would give me advice like this, maybe because he's been through worse conditions since he was a child. This is why we should all be considerate of others and to save ourselves from desperation and to be strong no matter what someone else's belief is. We should all see a problem as a challenge to get through, an obstacle that we must face to have it resolved. Because that's what a problem is supposed to be right? Something resolved in the end. I may not know everything, i know that, and i may not be strong towards myself right now, but i'm not going to give up. Neither should anyone else, and we should also try to think of ways to resolve our own problems before asking others, especially when we may feel desperate.
Try, try, try..even if don't succeed in the end, at least you'll know you made an effort to do so. :]
GOODNIGHT
Sunday, January 9, 2011
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